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I left my heart... in a hotel room on 9th and Harrison
Black eye
mudcub
Well, I'm a "short timer". I'm moving to Washington DC on October 1st, 2009. Work is transferring me to the east coast, but more importantly, I get to be closer to Master Thor, who I am lucky enough to serve as a slave. I know I have only few more weeks living in the bay area, and I have way too many things to do. I wanted to mention some of the men (and women, too!) who made my year in California so special.

I apologize for this post. I'm speaking emotionally about some of the people I met while living here, but it some cases I don't want to name names. I don't mean to be emo or cryptic. If you have a question, please email me off-line (kellogg@dim.com) and I'll be clear to you. Worse, I know I probably am forgetting someone. Probably someone really close to me, and I'll feel stupid that your name didn't come to mind right away. Trust me, I didn't mean to leave you off the list.

There were seven men I met in San Francisco while I was here who really affected me. I consider all of them friends, and (especially in the case of Sam) maybe a lot more. It pains me that I will never build a stronger relationship with them
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Sam Campbell
gregorbehr 
wet_in_sf  (George Clements)
gordreece 
that_grr  (Puppy)
allanh and Randy

Twenty-one people I hung out with once or twice and had a really good time. I hope I can see them all again in the future
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bigredpaul 
dendren (Phil)
dhpbear (David)
FilthySmellinFucker
fogbear 
ItalianDad
Jon Bumgardner
Jonathan Domash (and his partner Stewart)
Kitty (Eve)
mamagnome (Elisa)
Master Roberto
pigpupsf (Kenji De Sade)
pitpatpup 
pup_ajax 
Southernbear
badwox 
Spike and Herbie
thikstache (Wallace)
Yossi

Twenty-seven guys I never spent much time with. Amazing men, all of them. I wonder why I never called or emailed them to get together more often
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anthrocubsf 
bearbait (Ed Luce)
bentwright (Drew Dirschell)
Brophey, Rasslor, and their cub
Bullhaulerdave
cellboy (Rick)
darkphuque 
devldog 
djrottenrobbie (Robbie)
downshifft (Jorge)
Duke and Rat
eireangus 
foodpoisoningsf (Phil)
furr_a_bruin  (Furr)
karusf 
ltorosf (Toro)
Mongo (and his partner Steve)
p0lecat 
progbear 
rampagebear (Steve)
throbbin 
urso 
Yardiogenis

Regrets? I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention. So I'll mention them here
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* The Very Nice Bear who just wanted dinner with me, and I blew him off. Sorry, I'm a dick. Sorry sorry sorry
* The hot stud who lives near me, is into the same kinky things I am (which is *rare*), but he and I were too busy to meet up, I guess
* Hot sub who wanted to serve me, and I never let him
* I feel bad that I never did anything with the awesome K9_unit of pups and handlers
* Even though I played rugby for a half a season before breaking my hand, I never made friends with any of the other players, even though I hung out after the game and and drank and volunteered
* I never joined the local hockey or wrestling clubs
* I missed Bigfundrew's party while he was in San Francisco

I Topped three boys over the past few months. I feels great to be a dominant, and I had a lot of fun with these boys. But as a Top, I'm kind of a dick... I can't even remember one boy's name, even though we played three or four times in various dungeons. I put a lot of effort into giving the boy a good experience during the scene, but since Topping is not as important to me as being a slave, I don't call or write or follow up like I should. But I am grateful for their service and the fun we had. So, I'll just refer to these three boys as:
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Boy #1
Boy #2
Boy #3

Here are thirty-three bloggers on LiveJournal who live in the bay area that I hoped to meet, but for some reason, never emailed or called
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bearmstr 
beastbriskett 
bearbait 
beefurjoe 
beg1n 
bigjohnsf 
bigreddee 
bikerbaer (Wulf)
bunnykitteh 
castrofur 
castrowoof 
champsf 
cop4cbt 
fredtheplumber 
grubbybastard 
grumblor 
keanubear 
kitchenbeard 
leothelionfurry 
low_fat_muffin 
master_dave 
mdconnell 
mglthr 
nashobabear 
nebris 
pauliebearsf 
dukehyena 
timberwoof 
twobraids 
ultramundanecom 
virtueprod 
wetbearsf 
zbear20 

I hope I'll be back someday. I love San Francisco: the weather, the sites, the gay life. And I especially love the human beings... I will miss you all. Hope to see you at leather events, or when I come to visit.


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Brophey and Rasslor are truly Just Good People. I'm sorry you didn't get more of their company.

heya Patrick... good luck in DC. Meeting you was truly a treat for me. I'd say let's try to dinner before you split but I know both our lives tend to run opposite ways. You truly are a sweet and sexy man... and those pits smell mighty nice. Take care buddy.
Cheers!

DC is great (used to live there)...

NYC is wonderful (my hometown)...

Best wishes serving your Daddy Thor (known him forever)...

Sorry we didn't connect in SF (law school has held my social life hostage the past two years)...

Definitely keep in touch....our paths will cross.......


the best thing about folks leaving SF is that they come back to visit and spend more money here than when they lived here. Visit often. Bring Thor. Spend moneys.

Oct. 1st is still 1 1/2 months away. That's plenty of time to see people.

Best of luck on the right coast. So sorry we could not get the timing right for meeting up. If you have time, (know you'll be busy with the move and all), think of dinner, brunch, a drink before you leave (or better yet, plan a get together, at a bar, restaurant, where a bunch of us can say goodbye ).
Cheers! :o)




I'm sure I'll see you at the next SmokeOut. I didn't know you knew Sam...he's good people.

We will definitely meet up before you leave for DC!

Best of luck in DC! We'll meet up eventually somewhere.

Sad you'll be leaving ... but happy you'll be closer to Master Thor. We absolutely have got to get together at least one more time before you leave!!!!

Twenty-seven guys I never spent much time with. Amazing men, all of them. I wonder why I never called or emailed them to get together more often:
Duke&Rat


Hey look at it this way: You're Normal! (Not very many people come by)

Good luck, young grasshopper! (I stole that from Softtail)

socializing is hard work. Never mind virtual :-0)

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