mudcub (mudcub) wrote,
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I left my heart... in a hotel room on 9th and Harrison

Well, I'm a "short timer". I'm moving to Washington DC on October 1st, 2009. Work is transferring me to the east coast, but more importantly, I get to be closer to Master Thor, who I am lucky enough to serve as a slave. I know I have only few more weeks living in the bay area, and I have way too many things to do. I wanted to mention some of the men (and women, too!) who made my year in California so special.

I apologize for this post. I'm speaking emotionally about some of the people I met while living here, but it some cases I don't want to name names. I don't mean to be emo or cryptic. If you have a question, please email me off-line (kellogg@dim.com) and I'll be clear to you. Worse, I know I probably am forgetting someone. Probably someone really close to me, and I'll feel stupid that your name didn't come to mind right away. Trust me, I didn't mean to leave you off the list.

There were seven men I met in San Francisco while I was here who really affected me. I consider all of them friends, and (especially in the case of Sam) maybe a lot more. It pains me that I will never build a stronger relationship with them
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Sam Campbell
gregorbehr 
wet_in_sf  (George Clements)
gordreece 
that_grr  (Puppy)
allanh and Randy

Twenty-one people I hung out with once or twice and had a really good time. I hope I can see them all again in the future
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bigredpaul 
dendren (Phil)
dhpbear (David)
FilthySmellinFucker
fogbear 
ItalianDad
Jon Bumgardner
Jonathan Domash (and his partner Stewart)
Kitty (Eve)
mamagnome (Elisa)
Master Roberto
pigpupsf (Kenji De Sade)
pitpatpup 
pup_ajax 
Southernbear
badwox 
Spike and Herbie
thikstache (Wallace)
Yossi

Twenty-seven guys I never spent much time with. Amazing men, all of them. I wonder why I never called or emailed them to get together more often
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anthrocubsf 
bearbait (Ed Luce)
bentwright (Drew Dirschell)
Brophey, Rasslor, and their cub
Bullhaulerdave
cellboy (Rick)
darkphuque 
devldog 
djrottenrobbie (Robbie)
downshifft (Jorge)
Duke and Rat
eireangus 
foodpoisoningsf (Phil)
furr_a_bruin  (Furr)
karusf 
ltorosf (Toro)
Mongo (and his partner Steve)
p0lecat 
progbear 
rampagebear (Steve)
throbbin 
urso 
Yardiogenis

Regrets? I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention. So I'll mention them here
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* The Very Nice Bear who just wanted dinner with me, and I blew him off. Sorry, I'm a dick. Sorry sorry sorry
* The hot stud who lives near me, is into the same kinky things I am (which is *rare*), but he and I were too busy to meet up, I guess
* Hot sub who wanted to serve me, and I never let him
* I feel bad that I never did anything with the awesome K9_unit of pups and handlers
* Even though I played rugby for a half a season before breaking my hand, I never made friends with any of the other players, even though I hung out after the game and and drank and volunteered
* I never joined the local hockey or wrestling clubs
* I missed Bigfundrew's party while he was in San Francisco

I Topped three boys over the past few months. I feels great to be a dominant, and I had a lot of fun with these boys. But as a Top, I'm kind of a dick... I can't even remember one boy's name, even though we played three or four times in various dungeons. I put a lot of effort into giving the boy a good experience during the scene, but since Topping is not as important to me as being a slave, I don't call or write or follow up like I should. But I am grateful for their service and the fun we had. So, I'll just refer to these three boys as:
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Boy #1
Boy #2
Boy #3

Here are thirty-three bloggers on LiveJournal who live in the bay area that I hoped to meet, but for some reason, never emailed or called
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bearmstr 
beastbriskett 
bearbait 
beefurjoe 
beg1n 
bigjohnsf 
bigreddee 
bikerbaer (Wulf)
bunnykitteh 
castrofur 
castrowoof 
champsf 
cop4cbt 
fredtheplumber 
grubbybastard 
grumblor 
keanubear 
kitchenbeard 
leothelionfurry 
low_fat_muffin 
master_dave 
mdconnell 
mglthr 
nashobabear 
nebris 
pauliebearsf 
dukehyena 
timberwoof 
twobraids 
ultramundanecom 
virtueprod 
wetbearsf 
zbear20 

I hope I'll be back someday. I love San Francisco: the weather, the sites, the gay life. And I especially love the human beings... I will miss you all. Hope to see you at leather events, or when I come to visit.

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