Shoot... I was hoping to move to the east coast to be "New York's Openly Bisexual Ass", but the position is evidently already taken.
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mudcub- August 13th, 2009
Shoot... I was hoping to move to the east coast to be "New York's Openly Bisexual Ass", but the position is evidently already taken.
On that subject, did you find my wristwatch?
PS, MudCub: "bisexual"?!?
I labeled myself as bi when I was younger and more adventurous, and perhaps wasn't entirely sure, but after a while I realized that while I could imagine some fairly hot scenes involving men and my fetishes, that wasn't what I yearned for.
IIRC, the Kinseys used something like "how often do you fantasize about this gender or that gender" for their famous scale of sexual preference. It seems quite reasonable to me. I also liked the fact that they used a scale rather than a binary choice.
Like gender, I do think preference is a spectrum, or continuum, although most people seem to group themselves toward one end or the other.
hang on
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Re: hang on
Yeah, not sure how we met, now though!
I think perhaps it was through Tim S's LJ.
Honestly, market fragmentation has gone too far. Where, then, are the blogs for yesterday's bisexuals, and tomorrow's bisexuals?
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I'd been booed so many times for marching in Pride parades with my group and the treatment we got at the Center back then was so bad, members of my group were not physically safe (there was a stalker the Center refused to ban), and we had to leave the Center to keep people safe.
So when people who are largely perceived as gay apply the 'b' word to themselves, I get all weepy and deeply touched and stuff. It's not easy. I don't spend much time with Orthodox Queers these days as a direct result of all the biphobia I dealt with at the Center back then and from other monosexual queers and I miss being a queer activist. It just got too nasty and personal and unpleasant. Thanks for using the 'B' word.