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Shoot... I was hoping to move to the east coast to be "New York's Openly Bisexual Ass", but the position is evidently already taken.

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Well, I think kinky men are great too, and while I have experimented a little (but in oddly patchy & incomplete ways), I don't fantasize about men, so I don't consider myself bi.

I labeled myself as bi when I was younger and more adventurous, and perhaps wasn't entirely sure, but after a while I realized that while I could imagine some fairly hot scenes involving men and my fetishes, that wasn't what I yearned for.

IIRC, the Kinseys used something like "how often do you fantasize about this gender or that gender" for their famous scale of sexual preference. It seems quite reasonable to me. I also liked the fact that they used a scale rather than a binary choice.

Like gender, I do think preference is a spectrum, or continuum, although most people seem to group themselves toward one end or the other.

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