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I am going to Cleveland Leather Awareness Week (CLAW) next weekend, April 24-27. if you see me hanging around the event (or the Embassy Suites secondary host hotel) in my dirty carhartts... please come up to me and say "hello".

I've been to several events in the last two years: MAL, SmokeOut, IceBearg... but I never seem to meet anyone or get laid. Or if I *do* manage to hook up, it's with someone from Denver that lives only a few miles away and we could get together any time. So, I'm trying to break the curse this month!

I love leather weekends away. But the problem is that I get to caught up in the *event*. I go to the contests, I shop at the vendors, I hit the town playing tourist and see the sights, dress up in my most extreme butch drag, go out to dinner, and crash back at the hotel room exhausted. My partner is coming along, which isn't a problem (he loves threesomes, or he will let me play alone). But it's hard to go "hunting" and spend the time needed to chat a guy up, get him familiar with me, and go in for the kill with an overt proposition. Most of the time, I think "fuck it... I'd rather go cuddle with my boyfriend"!

The claw in the photo is actually a corsage holder that my boyfriend "pervertized". I haven't gotten to use it yet, but I'm bringing it along for the weekend, just in case {grin}.

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I have a lot of friendship pins from all over the USA in testament to my attendance at various events. I've found that in order to go to a leather event without a posse is a little difficult because you really must put yourself out there. You gotta work them cocktail parties with your cock and tail. In some leather events, the schedule is insanely packed, so no one gets to be himself. At a leather event, you have to go after what you see as soon as you see it. Finally, there seems to be a custom that I've noticed at many events: the sub is to pursue the dom. If there is a sub waiting for a dom to pick him, that sub has along wait I know that an aggressive sub doesn't feel quite right and it is the the type of behavior that gets someone labeled a pushy bottom. But in this case the pushy bottom gets the worm

Thanks Sir! It's nice to know that it's more like fishing than hunting.

But i'll definitely be pushy and aggressive if it means a chance of serving You!

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