I start negotiating right away: I ask if what his prior experience was, if he liked being tied up, or if he was a top or a bottom. I was treated with silence from the other end of the IM.
It turns out that the guy was trying to tell me he was into *sound* sounds... you know, MUSIC. He liked listening to nature and the music of the things around him. Luckily, he had no idea what I was talking about... {grin}
