There are so many ways to be mendacious. Lies of omission work as well as those of commission. Or at the very least, bend the truth to your advantage. Or, better yet, don’t take the time to think about the situation so you end up lying to yourself. Those are the kind of lies that can never be caught because you truly believe you are telling the truth.
2. Don’t take anything seriously
Remember that this is just a game. So what if the stakes include the Top’s self worth and confidence? Get hooked up, get off, and then get away as fast as you can. Talk about the prospective Master with your friends and compare notes. Develop an elaborate scoring system to see who’s the best Top in town. Make jokes at their expense in public.
3. Drama, drama, drama
If you can’t be a good slave, at least you can win an Oscar. Let your inner problems get in the way of the service. Rant and cry for hours about petty details that have nothing to do with the Master. Blow up small incidents until they become huge issues to talk about at length. Come on… you are a gay man. This should come naturally to anybody on LiveJournal.
4. It’s all about the sub
Every scene is about you. After all, aren’t you the one tied up? The relationship should center around your needs and opinions. And when it ceases to be what you had in mind, drop it like Visine. Talk endless about yourself.
5. Make the rounds
Do you like having a Master? Why choose just one? Go around town pledging your love and devotion to anybody who will invite you over for an afternoon dungeon session. Let the Master spend His time and energy on you, and then throw the investment away. Call it polyamory if you must, but get your ass out there.
6. Don’t show up or be reliable
Remember, meeting times are just a *suggestion*. Show up late with a good story. Or better yet, cancel the session altogether, preferably hours after you were supposed to the meet the Master. You can always make an excuse why plans had to change. Using family problems is always an excellent trump card to be played over and over again.
7. It’s all about sex
If you didn’t get off, it didn’t really happen. Remember that a scene should end at exactly the perfect time… right after you cum. Make a list of fetishes, and tell the Top that he has to do them all to you, exactly the way you want them.
8. Be bratty
Haven’t had a good beating lately? Complain and fuss until the Master finally has to correct you. Or, even if you don’t want a scene, you can be a big enough baby to get a whole lot of time and attention. This works great for both for quiet weekends, as well as leather events where you feel like you’re not the focus of the party.
9. Prostitute the Top
Treat him like a paid whore. Even after a hard session, make sure to dismiss him with a quick goodbye. Don’t send an email or text a thank you message. He’ll be back again, but this time on your terms. Remember, everyone is a pro-dom, it’s just that most of them don’t get paid for it. Expect something in return for any bit of service you do. Keep score.
10. Work it
Everything can be a weapon. Do you have more money than the Top? Arrange a lifestyle that He won’t be able to keep up with and soon He will be dependent on you. Are you cute? Even better. Make sure the Master knows He is old, and can’t do any better than you. Use your body to make Him jealous, and then laugh that He is being silly. The goal isn't to be the best slave you can be... the goal is to be better than the Master.
Good luck with your service!